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Becoming A “Unicorn” Parent
Have you ever SWORN that you’d NEVER turn out to be like your parents when you had kids….
and then were mortified to one day notice,
that you were starting to follow in the same footsteps?
If you can’ t relate to what I just said…
Congrats, you’re likely keen on breaking cycles of Trauma..
But if you COULD relate —
please don’t feel ashamed of that.
Intergenerational trauma is so insidious,
you won’t even realize it’s affecting you.
You don’t know it’s there —
UNTIL you get activated by your kids….
For example —
If they don’t listen to you one day….
and you lose it —
because it takes you all the way back to childhood
where you didn’t feel seen and heard by your parents.
It’s in the little things that are stuck as deep neural grooves
in our reactions.
They get passed down, causing a reaction in the systems of our child.
The problem is —