Betrayal and Infidelity

Out of all the people who reach out requesting guidance, almost half are struggling through a betrayal — either they have been cheated on or are doing the cheating.

We have a different approach that actually helps people transcend the blame game and heal — and most of the people we work with actually end up stronger than before the affair.

One of our students finally had the courage to leave, only to realize her partner stepped up after she did and took ownership — something he never did when she was still entangled with him in their unresolved trauma bond.

After one year apart they’re back together stronger than before… their family of 5 still together.

Out of all the podcasts I’ve done, this one with Debi Silber was the most talked about and referenced because of the conversation we had about infidelity and “forgiveness”.

After listening to this podcast, one of my students realized that she literally read 6 books on “forgiveness” after her husbands affair and she STILL couldn’t let go of the emotional engagement with it — it was like being chained to a post in a cemetery with the key in her own pocket.

She’s completely free now — and has embodied the somatic healing work she learned and enjoys a connection with her husband she has never felt before — even after 25 years of marriage.

This podcast was where it all began for her.

After you listen — please let me know what you think.
I’d love to hear from you.