Cheating To Stay Or Go

“Should I stay or go” has been the biggest question we get from our emails and DM’s.

Couples who are stuck in co-dependency, stuck in story….

Pamela’s relationship was no different. They were on the rocks — after multiple affairs — and counselling and talk therapy wasn’t helping.

The pandemic really stirred shit up and they couldn’t ignore it anymore.

On the recommendation from a friend, she booked an Intimacy Audit Call and spoke with Kim to see if she could find some clarity as to what the next steps could be.

A few months later, she finally made the difficult decision to leave,
finally separated from her husband in a way that had him understand,

AND HE EVEN HELPED HER MOVE.

This was done in a way that minimized collateral damage on their 3 kids.

Long story short, 6 months later after she did the inner work in our community…

I was so pleased (yet not surprised) when I got word that HE STEPPED UP AND TOOK RESPONSIBILITY FOR HEALING HIS OWN ATTACHMENT WOUNDS.

The discomfort of getting real with himself turned out to be better than the risk of losing her.