Cheating To Stay Or Go

Dr. Nima Rahmany
2 min readAug 16, 2022

“Should I stay or go” has been the biggest question we get from our emails and DM’s.

Couples who are stuck in co-dependency, stuck in story….

Pamela’s relationship was no different. They were on the rocks — after multiple affairs — and counselling and talk therapy wasn’t helping.

The pandemic really stirred shit up and they couldn’t ignore it anymore.

On the recommendation from a friend, she booked an Intimacy Audit Call and spoke with Kim to see if she could find some clarity as to what the next steps could be.

A few months later, she finally made the difficult decision to leave,
finally separated from her husband in a way that had him understand,


This was done in a way that minimized collateral damage on their 3 kids.

Long story short, 6 months later after she did the inner work in our community…

I was so pleased (yet not surprised) when I got word that HE STEPPED UP AND TOOK RESPONSIBILITY FOR HEALING HIS OWN ATTACHMENT WOUNDS.

The discomfort of getting real with himself turned out to be better than the risk of losing her.

Instead of bowing down to her co-dependecy, Pamela chose HERSELF, for the sake of herself, her partners growth (she was enabling his stagnation), and FOR THE KIDS.

They’re now back together in a whole new relationship.

This 12 minute video has her sharing her journey in an interview I did with her almost a year after we last saw her — demonstrating that the skills and tools LANDED IN HER BODY,
and the internal shift within her wasn’t just a flash in the pan.

Pamela recreated herself.

Watching this video — if you can relate, and you’re ready to completely transform your relationships, your parenting, your love life, your leadership, ALL FROM SHIFTING THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF,
and you are ready to break the cycle of intergenerational trauma….

And you’re committed, you’ve already invested in therapy and have been noticing it’s only been limited in your awareness…

Follow the link to apply,
and you could be the next Pamela and David story.

Are you not worth it to find out?

Dr. Nima Rahmany

Dr. Nima Rahmany is a retired Chiropractor and interpersonal trauma specialist studying and teaching principles of healing mind and body.