Dancing With Your Dark Passenger
As a fan of the series “Dexter,” I was intrigued by how
the protagonist was also the villain.
As I delve deeper in understanding human behavior, I realize how much we are all very similar.
We crave confidence, feeling safe and secure in our bodies,
and in our relationships, but there is this “Dark Passenger”
we seem to work so hard to get rid of, suppress, or extinguish.
This “Dark Passenger” as Dexter calls it, is our Shadow.
Every time you’re feeling stuck with self doubt,
self hate, reactivity, or paralyzed with fear of what others think,
it’s simply because your Dark Passenger is in the driver’s seat.
If you’re like most people, you’ve been doing personal development work or therapy,
to try to “heal” from that — and you’ve been living with a covert expectation
that you’ll finally rid yourself of the effects of this Dark Passenger.
I know I sure was.
But it wasn’t until I realized there was nothing to “fix” that I liberated myself from the endless bi-polar cycles of healing.
When you finally give up the need to fix — and look towards gaining a better UNDERSTANDING,
then you’re able to shift conditioned behaviors and reactivity that have kept you stuck in Groundhog Day
in your relationships, health, and career.
You’re able to step into a new level of deserving — and be willing to receive love, receive abundance, and feel deserving of higher levels of energy.
When you master this dance, you realize there’s nothing wrong with you… And your self-doubt turns to confidence, and self-hate turns to Self Love and Trust.
“Dancing with your Dark Passenger” — what my name is for the Deep Shadow Work I love to teach —
has been the most liberating experience I’ve encountered in all the years
I’ve studied and implemented in healing and human behavior.
When you do, your relationships transform along with your health and vitality. And that’s simply because you’re no longer at war with parts of yourself.
And there’s nothing like doing it along with a community of #CycleBreakers looking to heal
what never started with them in the first place.
It didn’t start with you.
But it can end with you.
If you’re finally ready to go deeper, and stop being at war with your shadow — and learn this critical dance
to access power and freedom,
See you at the next perfect time.