How To Break A Trauma Bond In Less Than 6 Months

Dr. Nima Rahmany
3 min readFeb 4, 2022

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Trauma bonds are tricky.

Some experts say it’s impossible.

If you’ve ever been stuck in relationship limbo, not knowing whether to stay or go, you aren’t alone.

Trauma bonds are volatile, highly charged, push/pull dynamics where you KNOW you’re bad for one another, but you just can’t seem to stop, even though it’s destroying you inside.

When we don’t get to the cause and address it, we are stuck in the cycle of manipulation and abuse.

When you finally meet it head on, you gather the courage to change the dance.

In this video I interview Jen who was in a trauma bond with her (same sex) partner — yes the same rules apply — where she describes how she finally broke free when 20 years of counselling didn’t.

Important to note that through her work, she also was able to wean herself off of mood stabilizers.

If you are ready to change the dance and want to learn how, and you resonate with Jen’s story, just know it’s entirely possible if you’re willing to do the work.

When you’re ready, here’s what we got:

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Dr. Nima Rahmany
Dr. Nima Rahmany

Written by Dr. Nima Rahmany

Dr. Nima Rahmany is a retired Chiropractor and interpersonal trauma specialist studying and teaching principles of healing mind and body.

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