How To Not Screw Up Our Kids With Bad Parenting
This video pretty much explains everything of what we do in our community events and trainings.
It’s from an interview with Dr. Gabor Mate.
Even if you’re NOT a parent, it’s important you watch it.
When you watch it.. please share….
what comes up for you?
If you experienced insecure attachments growing up, there’s good news.
You can turn this around.
Why would you want to even bother?
Because unconsciously, when we don’t address our attachment traumas we pass it down to the kids.
And it’s a slippery one. Most parents are unknowingly parenting with ways of being that are FELT by the child to be unsafe and conditionally loving, leaving the child to be raised insecure.
It doesn’t have to be overt Trauma, either. Physical abuse and sexual abuse is horrible, but there’s trauma that gets passed from shaming tactics (watch my latest facebook live on 5 ways parents unconsciously use shame)…. that, over time, repeated is like death by a thousand papercuts.
It’s just as impactful as the big traumas.
It’s no wonder we have an anxiety, health, and relationship crisis.
If you watch this — and want to learn how to break the cycle, you’re in the right place.
Stay tuned and make sure to “get notifications” in Trigger Proof Facebook group to not miss out.
Standing for healed families.
(This is a pic of me at the age of 1).
Healing with this little guy before I got married (for the 2nd time) and had a kid was one of the greatest things I could have ever done.