Interpersonal Trauma Is The Root Cause Of The Root Cause

Dr. Nima Rahmany
3 min readMar 2, 2022


I’ve been in the process of re-inventing myself.

If you’ve ever considered making a big change in your life,
or you have ACTUALLY already had the courage and have taken the leap
and gone through the terrifying and exhilarating experience of re-inventing who you are being in the world,

let me just tell you — I don’t just see you. I FEEL you.

“What if people judge and criticize me?”
“What if I fail?”
“What if this doesn’t work out?”

On this path, I’ve not only had to contend with outside voices,
but the critical ones inside of me.

The truth?

I made a significant discovery in my own life, healing my own traumas that almost every single person coming to see me in my Chiropractic practice was suffering from the same thing:

Unresolved Trauma from Early Attachments to primary care givers (parents) shows up unconsciously in our behaviour,
our reactivity,
in the way we make sense and perceive LIFE,
And in our relationships —

I was mind blown.

When I realized this, I had to stop working for 6 months,
where I would distract myself by running a business helping others….
and go inward and reconnect to what was lost long ago as a result of unresolved trauma:

A connection with myself.

It was a scary leap.

I wanted to give up many times.

I’m glad I stayed the course, because without going deeper,
I would be missing out on healing the root cause of the root cause of almost every problem we face today in health, relationships, and purpose:

A deeper connection with myself.

If you KNOW there is a calling within you to shift your relationships from insecure — to a more secure state,
so that your relationships feel nourishing instead of draining
and you’re moving through the world with safety instead of “protection” and “fear of being left behind”

join us at one of our upcoming events and begin to unpack and learn the root cause of the root cause of what’s been stopping you.
Most of our traumas are relational.
So it’s imperative of us to learn how to transform them, so we don’t pass them down to our children.

When you’re ready, here’s what we got:

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Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you’re wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you’re ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

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Dr. Nima Rahmany

Dr. Nima Rahmany is a retired Chiropractor and interpersonal trauma specialist studying and teaching principles of healing mind and body.