The Most Common Question I Get In My Inbox And Emails
Can you take a guess what that is?
By FAR, by a LONG shot it goes something like this:
DM with a long (and I mean LONG) backstory about the history of a relationship challenge.
Often there’s a history of physical or emotional abuse.
Often there is a repetition in this relationship (whether they are aware of it or not) of a wounding from childhood as well.
Often there is infidelity and deep pain involved.
Either a breakup — or a reconnection — or just plain “What the F^& should I do?”
And my favorite of all time:
“Advice please?”
Then I facepalm as people start chiming in on what to do,
“OH GUUUUURL!!! YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM!! HE’S NO GOOD FOR YOU!!!”
Advice on “what to do” from people when you click on their Facebook profiles, show ZERO evidence of a healthy relationship…
Not even one with themselves.
Many are hiding in the shadows and concealing their identities.
Profile pics with nature, or cats, or some artwork, but usually concealing themselves.
The wounded ones with incomplete stories and unresolved wounds have the most SOLID advice — as they internalize the question and make it about them.
It’s for THIS reason I decided to do a 90 minute masterclass FOR FREE to give people access to the TOOLS needed to solve this dilemma.
The short answer is — nobody can give you any advice, because they’re not you. They don’t know you, your past, what your values are, and what outcome you wish to achieve.
The BEST advice is the advice that helps you figure out what’s true for YOU.
“Should I stay or go?” Is not an absolute answer, and has many variables.
But if you make 5 SPECIFIC TRANSITIONS, then you can come up with the answers yourself.
Our Masterclass called “SHOULD I STAY OR GO? 5 Transitions needed to break repetitive patterns and create the relationships you want, without years of Counseling or Therapy”.
That’s right. You DON’T NEED YEARS OF THERAPY to figure your shit out.
Instead of focusing on finding solutions, it’s wiser to LEARN PROCESSES so you can find your own solutions .
The processes are covered in the Masterclass.
If you show up live, I’ll share a hot seat opportunity to help someone process what they’re going through…
If you can’t make it live, no worries, the replay will be up for 72 hours afterwards.
If you’re ready to
Stop having the same arguments
Stop dating the same types of people
Stop the co-dependency cycle and being so needy or avoidant
and start feeling more secure in relationships,
and create a family life that you actually enjoy
and BREAK THE CYCLE that passes down to the children…
Follow the link and see you soon, or on Replay.
Warning: It’s likely stuff you have NOT seen or heard of before.
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