What The Actual Fuck
Lots of new members.
Welcome to this crazy ass party.
Lots of confusion.
Lots of drama just popped up and I figured out why.
I’ve been trying to play the rescuer to several people who have no real intention on healing and resolving their issues.
I say this with empathy, because
Consciously we are all trying to heal.
But like I’ve seen in my own life and the clients we are helping break the cycles of intergenerational trauma, these cycles have been going on for generations and letting them go is very difficult.
As a result we sub-consciously sabotage our own healing with our incessant need for drama and identity based on our victim story.
I just caught myself knee deep in it and had to show 2 people the door in 24 hours (which is a new reality of this growing community I’m adapting to).
So to stay true to what I’m teaching, I had to take an uncomfortable look in the mirror and own my inner rescuer’s need to feel right and important and have given him a break from responding to advice seeking posts and correcting shitty advice from people who have no business trying to help someone in a relationship dilemma.
If you have a genuine challenge you’re going through, you’re new (or a long time quiet lurker) and you’re wanting to solve something you’re currently going through, drop a question below and show up live to interact with me or watch the replay.
I’m going to hopefully do a transmission that will set you on the right path.
Gonna recharge my batteries by snuggling with this little peanut and come back and serve those who are not wanting to be rescued — but only those willing to put aside their victim stories and learn how to rescue themselves