What The Path To Healing Looks Like
If you’ve ever felt frustration on your healing journey, there’s a good reason.
It’s because your expectations are likely in fantasy land.
The perfectionistic parts that are deathly afraid of “failure” love to show up on your journey towards healing your attachment wiring,
and when you fall into old patterns —
- texting an ex you’re trying to let go of,
- shopping to wash your blues away,
- relapsing with substances
- using pornography when you committed to stopping…
The path to healing is messy AF.
Using language like “backsliding” and “relapse”
completely invalidates the way
Neuroplasticity (which is a rewiring of the Nervous System) actually works.
It’s cyclical.
Think of it this way:
Every time you “backslide” — think of it as you’re spiralling UPWARDS, bringing a new awareness with you —
with lessons learned — as your most recent “relapse” has new information that you can take with you for your next phase of the journey.
This is the path that ALL healing takes.
It’s not linear.
Think of your relationship to love.
Healing and rewiring your anxious/avoidant attachment won’t be linear.
If you’re willing to be guided and learn the tools,
you can use every setback as information to help move you into a more secure state.
Think of your relationship to sex:
As you heal it — you will have to lean into the possibility of screwing it up.
If you’re willing to be guided and learn the tools,
you can use every setback as information to help you move into a more secure state.
Think of your relationship to money:
Healing and rewiring your scarcity fears will be messy,
filled with uncertainty and discomfort.
If you’re willing to be guided and learn the tools,
you can use every setback as information to help you expand your container for prosperity.
That’s what we are doing at Rewire on March 10–12 (11th-13 if you’re in Oz/NZ).
THERE ARE 10 TICKETS LEFT!
Tell me if you’re in to leaning in to learn THE process from someone who’s spent the last 30 years
researching and practicing what effectively works to heal mind and body….
Me — yours truly….
And I’m dedicated to showing those who are Nerds for healing the actual Neuroscience of expanding the container for DESERVING.
If we don’t, we fall victim to our conditioning and repeat what we’ve always had.
When we do — we create our own reality.
Tell me if you’re in.
If you have questions and need help finding clarity, I’m here to help too,
just comment below or get in my DM and let me know.
See you at the next perfect time.
Nima
