You Are Getting What You Think You Deserve
Take a look at the quality of how you are treated in your relationships.
If you’re feeling ignored, dismissed, not a priority, overlooked and invalidated, disrespected and not cherished, chances are you’re seeing a reflection.
(Some revelations from some client calls recently):
“She isn’t attracted to me anymore.”
- Who’s not attracted to you anymore?
“I’m not attracted to myself”.
Bingo.
“He pulls away after we have sex.”
- who pulls away?
“I do. I expect him to pull away so I get fearful and brace myself and clearly he’s picking up on my energy.”
Bingo.
I kept hearing this but it really didn’t land with me until it did:
Our relationships are mirrors towards how we see and feel about ourselves and demonstrate to us exactly what we unconsciously feel we deserve.
And if what we are getting isn’t too inspiring, instead of doing what most people do this day and age, which is blame the other for our woes and label them as a Narcissist, I’m inviting you to take the road less travelled:
To look in the mirror and use the relationship as a reflection.
This is one of a handful of tools we use in our community of diverse humans on the path of creating secure relationships.
Our families are in trouble.
Relationships are breaking down, disconnected, and people are realizing that they have been ill equipped to succeed in the MOST IMPORTANT area of their lives.
And with the breakdowns of relationships you will notice health falling apart as a result.
This seemingly weird occurrence was what drove me to leave the confines of my Chiropractic career to solve the riddle and bridge the gap for people.
But first I had to do it for myself.
If you want to experience the path from “Should I stay or go” to being at a place where your ONLY attracting people who treating you like absolute gold (to match the elevated level of self worth you’ve ascended to) —
I’m literally demonstrating how it’s done this Saturday with my community of Cyclebreakers who are upgrading their magnetism for love that feels secure….together.
I know what it’s like to be in a toxic trauma bond push/pull, highly volatile dynamic where you look in the mirror one day and say “how did I get this low?”
“What kind of disrespect have I been tolerating?”
I know the sheer terror that this type of anxiety brings.
And worst of all: Looking in the mirror saying “I hate who I’m becoming here.”
I met Kim Turner at a point in her life where shame and disconnection ran the show so much, she forgot who she was.
Family torn apart, self worth in the worst of places we began a journey where she learned how to take charge of her Nervous System and become a safe container for others.
She shared her journey and I was moved to tears.
If you can relate, just realize that theres a path that’s already carved out for those who are committed to healing and getting to a place where they embody their natural feminine/ masculine self worth, attracting ONLY high value interactions to reflect the love you feel towards yourself.
If you’re willing to dedicate time and energy towards your healing, growth, and embodied magnetism, the below section tells you where to go.
But first you must decide if you deserve to have it.
When I say I stand for healed families, this is what I mean.
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On Saturday Nov 18th, I unpack the path to secure relationships for my cyclebreaker academy who are creating more connected relationships this year than ever — opening up a handful of spots for guests who want to peak behind the curtain and learn exactly how to dismantle conflict at its core, turning your triggers into a sense of deeper self worth and conflict into deeper intimacy where you become magnetic.
3 spots left for guests.
Saturday Nov 18 from noon — 6 PST 3–9 EST.
Will help solve the riddle of “should I stay or go.”
